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While few people will readily admit that they own a sex doll, it doesn’t seem to stop it from being a booming industry. So who exactly buys a sex doll?

As with most fetishes, the sex doll craze offers up a wealth of questions. Who actually buys one of those? Do they seriously use them? Are they only used by creepers and sociopaths? While few of the questions that most commonly surfaced were anywhere near respectful, I took the time to investigate the ones that were, satisfying the curiosity of all. What did I find out? That all kinds of people purchase all kinds of sex dolls for all kinds of reasons. It should be noted early that sex dolls are not only purchased by men, but women, couples, and transgendered people as well. And the reasons that these sex dolls are being purchased are just as varied as the purchasers themselves. Sex dolls come in all shapes and sizes, from the inflatable to the uncannily lifelike silicone.

 

When polled, doll owners reported a plethora of reasons for purchasing their non-breathing counterparts, but the top three responses were improving a sex life, companionship or loneliness, and to satisfy specific fetishes that only a sex doll can satiate.

 

As far as sex lives go- dolls make it all quite a bit simpler. You can get “laid” anytime you want, there’s no emotional upkeep to worry about, and ultimately there’s a certain ease that’s involved when you’re involved with a sex doll.

 

“I originally bought [my doll] because I was lonely and hadn’t been able to find a woman that suited me. I felt like I had tried every angle in the dating game with little or no positive result. So I ended up buying a doll- I guess it’s similar in a way that a lonely woman might buy a dildo- it was easy. I got to have sex without having to suffer the consequences of dating gone wrong. It was all on my own terms and no one got hurt if I was feeling less than motivated to show real affection. I don’t believe that I have a relationship with [the sex doll] or anything, but it fills a void at the moment”

 

This doll owner reported feelings that can be familiar to just about anyone. While the doll fulfills a desire for uncomplicated, masturbatory satisfaction, the owner is left feeling less repressed and shut down. Nothing creepy about it, just another solo play toy that any one of us could have within our arsenals.

 

For companionship, sex dolls can take a slightly darker, and more heartbreaking turn.

 

“I lost my wife of 22 years in a car accident. Our children are grown and off living their own lives so I was left with a big house, all to myself. I tried to see other people and to date, but I just wasn’t ready to move on. I wasn’t ready to give up my wife. There were too many mental barriers to my emotional life for me to actually sustain a relationship and I’ve never been one for casual sex. I ended up commissioning very expensive [sex dolls] from several different companies, until I was able to create the perfect model. Many of the places refused to work off of a picture of my dead wife- which I can understand now, but at the time it was what I thought I needed. I ended up spending tens of thousands of dollars getting it right. I then ended up spending even more on necessary emotional counseling and therapy once I had discovered just how perverse my relationship with sex dolls had become.”

 

This owner reported that using sex dolls to quell the feelings of loss resulted in himself never being able to experience true closure that he needed. Using sex dolls as a bandage on an emotional wound isn’t necessarily a healthy option, and few of the owners of sex dolls that were polled reported positive interactions with their sex dolls when they were being used to combat feelings of loneliness or loss.

 

For me personally, the most fascinating and engaging of all of the polled owners of sex dolls were the doll fetishists. Caught somewhere between voyeurism and fantasy, these owners of impressively specific sex dolls have created such a niche market, that the sex dolls themselves are almost superhuman.

 

“I think I started having a “thing” with dolls early on in my youth. I’ve always been kind of a nerd that collects action figures and is into anime. This interest has grown with me and I now own a very large collection of both life size sex dolls, and sex doll action figures. The action figures allow me to perform uninhibited sexual role play that would be absolutely impossible with another person. My life size sex dolls range from the big eyed sailor moon-esque looking, with brightly colored hair and unnaturally large breasts, to very lifelike representations that have tattoos and piercings, or look uncannily like the girl next door. The thing that sex dolls offer is that they can be absolutely anything you want them to be at anytime. Instead of exposing myself to disease and heartbreak trying to find a human that matches my particular interests that day, I just have a doll for that. And if I don’t, then I’ll commission one.”

 

Sex doll enthusiasts are serious collectors with serious collections. One poller reports that he only ever uses the cheap, inflatable sex dolls because he has a latex fetish. A man who makes sex dolls in LA was interviewed by Independant, states that his professional sex dolls

 

“come with hefty price tags that start at a whopping $5,750 and can reach well in excess of $25,000. But with everything from tan lines and real hair, to tattoos, piercings and manicures (all customisable), the level of detail is so outstanding that it’s impossible not to admire them artistically.”

 

So much like the dolls themselves, the people that purchase them are all unique in their own ways. I don’t think that we were able to nail down the exact type of man that buys a sex doll, but boy did we have fun trying.

More and more young women are turning to look for work as Prague escorts while they attend university abroad. While it seems like an easy business to get in to, getting out of it can prove to be much harder than earning that degree.

A recent survey has just been carried out by the Bliss without Riskgroup, that provides support and health services to Prague’s many sex workers. This study found that about one fourth of all female Czech university students work as Prague escorts or in a similar trade. This number is also growing at an alarming rate. The survey suggests that women who attend Czech Universities from abroad, and come from poorer families are choosing sex work as a means to compete with affluence in their peer groups. Initially, being one of the many Prague escorts may seem like an easy job and a quick way to make decent money.

 

Bliss without Risk’s head, Hanna Malinova told Prague’s Daily Monitor that these women are searching for a way to financially fit in with the other women they attend school with “…[they want to] have money for parties, drinks and entertainment and the common temporary jobs are mostly paid badly.” Sex work seems like a viable option. Life as a student isn’t easy for anyone and trying to keep up with the appearances and expectations of other students can be incredibly damaging to some women, leading them to search for work that provides high income with low expectations and specialization. Sex work seems to be the easy answer for many of these young girls. While the pay can be exceptional, the workload gives some women an unrealistic view of the future, leading to them using sex as a tool for educational advancement, or quitting their studies altogether. The world of Prague escorts can be exceptionally glamourous to begin with. Fancy dinners, lovely gifts, and good money. But the longer women are with any agency, they tend to become forgotten as clients prefer fresh faces and better attitudes.

 

Working as Prague escorts can lead some women to believe that the money they are creating is a lifelong career. Instead of using sex work as an advancement, they begin to get comfortable with the lack of effort it takes and amount of money they get in return. However, the longer women are in the sex trade, the more dangerous their positions and associated behavior become. Sex work is legal in the Czech Republic, but it is poorly regulated. 70-80% of all clientele for sex workers are foreign to Prague. Some research suggests that this inherent anonymity is one of the main motivating factors of the violence that is ever present in the sex trade. A violence that is often discounted by most women who are looking to work as Prague escorts for extra cash. Bliss without Risk reports that only 10% of all women in the sex trade have never suffered any violence or abuse. That definitively shows that any woman looking to make money in this way should, at minimum, be prepared to be the victim of violence or abuse, which few are actually ready for or cognizant of.

 

Physical violence isn’t the only abuse that Prague escorts can expect. Agencies, brothel owners, and other third party participants in the sex trade take advantage of women economically. They withhold pay or fine them in such a way that there is always a debt to be paid, making it next to impossible to leave the trade. These financial crunches also make it difficult for the women to balance their studies, work, and personal lives, leading most women to eventually cease their collegiate pursuits. Once these women leave their universities by the wayside, they no longer interact with that specific peer group, instead, socializing with other sex workers, further normalizing their job choices and making it difficult for them to seek out other career paths or skill sets. Once this has gone on for so long, the likelihood that a woman is capable of supporting themselves in other ways decreases. Few women save for a future without sex work. Many women coerce or lie to potential partners and find themselves in abusive marriages thanks the lies they told in the beginning.

 

So while the rewards may seem too good to be true, chances are that’s exactly how it is. While the lifestyle may be enjoyable in the beginning, it’s rare that being involved in sex work remains a temporary position. The line between professionalism and everyday life become blurred, causing many women to alienate themselves from the lifestyles they so desperately sought out in the first place. Prague escorts may offer quick money, but for many women, it is in no way easymoney.

Whether you can use a boost in the bedroom or have nothing to complain about: trying something new cannot hurt if you are with a man you trust and with whom you feel at ease. And normally we would never promote that you should play games with your partner, but in the following 7 cases we say: give it a shot.

1 ‘X marks to spot’

Take a body part in mind and let him kiss you until he kisses the right spot. Is he counting too fast? Then it is secretly okay if you had also come up with a spot B and bet on it.

2 Strip pong

Do you know it from Americablown-up drinking beer ‘beer-pong’, where plastic cups with beer stand on a (ping-pong) table and you have to throw a ping-pong ball in it? You can also do that with another drink and as soon as you hit, your opponent has to take off a piece of clothing. The person who wins (read: the person who is not the first to be naked) may ask the other person for a sexual favor. You can have the best options with the Sex Sport – Trojan Games now.

3 Choose a card

Take a game of cards and give each character a different meaning: hearts means kisses, diamonds for a massage, kicks for handicraftsand clubs for oral. Take a card in turn and perform the action that goes with it: the number on the card determines how long you perform the action. Have fun !

4 Not so fast

Lie naked on the bed and let your partner wait at the door. He can only get a step closer when he answers a question about you correctly and you ask those questions yourself. Keep it sexy (what is my favorite position?) Or personal (what am I really happy about?). By teasing he only wants more to you and as soon as he is at the bed you reap the benefits.

5 Do or do?

Play, dare or truth – without daring or truth.The only rule? It must be sexy. So for example: sext me every morning from your work or talk dirty to me for twenty minutes. Your imagination is your best friend here.

6 The mirror game

Take place naked in bed together and sit right opposite each other. Choose who is ‘the boss’ at that moment and let the person take the initiative with the other kiss, caress and what more. The other person has to mirror that: do exactly the same, in the same place and in the same way. You will learn even better what the other likes and enjoy yourself. Win-win, there are no losers in this game. filme pornofilme porno

 

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